How to Get Back Together

For most of us, getting over your first love can seem impossible.

It's so hard to believe that you can be so in love and happy with someone who can give you love just as your first love gave you. The truth of the matter is, we are all humans and believe it or not, we cannot love one person only; we are capable of loving more than one. We can love too much but if we cannot love him just as what he does to you, then you will find someone else and another love, making you realize that you have had lots of loves in your lifetime. Now, the necessary thing you need to do now is to prepare yourself in a place where you can love again; but i know it will take time. Here are the best steps for making a clean break so that you can move on and find love at some point:

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1. The first thing to do is to accept the reality that the relationship is really over. This may be impossible to do. You thought the two of you would be together forever and you can't imagine that it could really be over. You better need to face the situation that the relationship is gone, so as much as possible, cut your communication with your ex.

2. Do no walk away and hide yourself. It is alright to have some days or weeks to self pity and be just in your own world, but after some time, you need to get back to the real world. It's not meant to tell you that you have to start dating, this step is about spending quality time with family and friends and not just locking yourself in the room and cry to sleep.

3. Do those things that you weren't able to do when the two of you were together. In the relationship, there are certain things that either of you wants to do some thing while the other one does not like it, and most often, the one who likes it cannot find the best time to do it no matter how much he /she likes it. Now is the time to revisit those things that you've put on hold. Remember, those things that can bring you joy will help a lot on the process of moving on.

4. You need some time to assess yourself with regards to knowing yourself more and to know what you actually want. As much as possible, try to be YOU and to be the best person ever. Lose weight, find a new job that you love, cut your hair, go for a shopping, play some sports; do some things that are rewarding for you and make sure it has positive effect into your life. These activities can make you feel a sense of fulfillment and will help you grow eventually as a better person. They can also give you something to distract yourself from the pain you are feeling, at least for a short time.

5. This can be the hardest thing to do... it's time to give some time for yourself. It may be very difficult for you now to be positive, but in time all the pains will gone astray and when that time comes, your heart is totally healed and you are willing to take chances again. You have to give yourself the time you need to mourn your lost love and regain your strength. Do not allow someone or some people to tell you hardly to move on because you can do it alone and in your own pace and in the right time. However, if it's been months or years that you have not moved on yet, you need to consider some help from a counselor to help you get by with the painful emotion.

Getting over your first love will seem like an impossible task. I understand how you have been so in love with your first love but if time tells you to move on, then you have no other way but to do it, and believe me it can happen, just give yourself time and you will, see you can.