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This is a very inspiring video that teaches you how to smile. Make sure you let the video buffer first and watch it after that in order to enjoy the full video without problems. It may take some times for it to load but it is worth the time watching it. Millions of people have already validated this video, now is your turn to validate it too. Trust me after watching it, you will definitely appreciate what I have shared with you today.

After problems, comes no problems!! ~ Unknown


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Remember this after problems, comes no problems. Please drop your comments to share your views after watching this video. Hope you enjoy it :)

Cheers
Johnny
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Do You Make These Relationship Mistakes While Getting Your Ex Back?

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Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. Unless it's a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from. ~ Al Franken


Have you ever wonder whether you have done the correct way to get back your ex? There are plenty of ways to get back your ex but it does not mean that all methods suit everyone. Some methods work on certain people while some may not as not everyone can accept the way we do things and if you are not careful you may end up cause the situation to worsen.

Remember to be extremely careful of what actions you take while trying to get your ex back. Always remind yourself that you are trying to get back your ex not getting them to hate you as this is to ensure that you will not do anything silly.

The following is a list of relationship mistakes that you should look out for and make sure you do not commit any of them as you do not want your ex to hate you.

Relationship Mistakes 1: Remind your Ex on the Promises They Made
Never try reminding your ex the things that they have said before as this will bring back sad memories instead of good ones. They may have promised you on certain things before but what is the point you are trying to get when you keep on constantly reminding them. This will only remind your ex how good it is to have leave someone like you as normally, people do not like to hear people nagging about their past.

Relationship Mistakes 2: Keep on Calling All Day Long
Hey, make sure you are not doing this as this really bug people off. Try calling your best friend everyday and see what he or she will tell you, normally they will ask you why you keep on calling me? Since you know that this is very annoying, never make this common mistake which many break up personnel has done without thinking through.

Relationship Mistakes 3: Flooding your Ex with Letters & Text Messages
When your ex is angry with you, they will not want to see anything from you at all. No point sending letters, emails and text messages to flood your ex to let them know how much you miss them as this will cause them to feel more pissed off. Try something different from others by sending something he or she love. If your ex do drive, drop a note on their windshield to grab their attention as this will catch her unexpected.

Relationship Mistakes 4: Follow your Ex Everywhere They Go
Stop being a stalker although you want your ex to know that every minute they live, you will be right there. For example, showing up at her school and waiting for her outside of class or by her car. This really scared people off as they will think that you seem to be crazy instead of being lovely.

Relationship Mistakes 5: Call your Ex's workplace to Look for Them
When people are at workplace, they are rarely in a romantic or relationship frame of mind. Most people do not like their colleagues know about their private life so they will try to keep their personal life and work life very separate. By calling her at work, she will feel like you are stalking her and cause her to hate you especially if it affects their job.

Relationship Mistakes 6: Try Dating Their Best Friend
Your efforts to make your ex jealous by dating their friends may end up ruining their friendship. Even if you manage to get back together, your ex will always blame you for causing her split with his or her best friend.

Relationship Mistakes 7: Bother Their Friends
Do you know that it is very annoying to hear your friends complaining to you that your ex has been constantly bothering them? You may think that showing concern is the right way to do but if you keep on constantly ask your ex's friends how he or she is doing and finding out where they are going. All these may not seems significant to you but it will cause your ex's friends to be pissed off as it is your own problem and why you want them to get involved. This will normally bring to the attention of your ex and it will cause he or her to be very angry.

Relationship Mistakes 8: Call your Ex Parents and Try to Be Their Parent's Best Friend
Never try calling your ex's parents up and try to be their parent's best friend. Remember that parents will always side with their children no matter what. This will always backfire on you resulting in making your ex have more reasons to hate you.

Relationship Mistakes 9: Harassing your Ex's New Love
I know you may be very jealous when seeing your ex found a new love interest but never try to call your ex's new lover up to declare that you are the real love and it is just a matter of time before you get your ex to come back to you. Instead of getting your ex back, this will make both your ex and the ex's new lover hate you. Thus, allowing them to become closer due to your harassment.

Parting Words
There are plenty of ways to get your ex back in love with you but get help and find out what things work. Follow your heart if you want to get your ex back, but always be careful of what you are going to do.

Cheers
Johnny
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Is It Too Late to Apologize?

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“Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.”
~ Og Mandino

To get someone back when they have walked out on you, does not have to be difficult. It does not matter if they walked out a few days ago or a few months ago. The same principles still apply. All that needs to be done is for you to be determined and committed to your cause and you take the necessary action.

Your first action is going to be to figure out what went wrong and what was your role in what went wrong. This is not about blaming for blames sake, it is about figuring out what you need to do to apologize and to make things right. Remember it takes two to make a relationship and two to break a relationship, so be honest with yourself and take your share of the blame.

The bottom line is that to get someone back, you are going to need an effective top draw apology. The apology must, in effect serve two ends: an explanation of why you are sorry and a further explanation of the plan you are going to implement so that the same wrong behavior never occurs again. Get these two planks right and your apology will work for you.

Explaining to your ex about why you are sorry for what has happened, means that you have taken the time to sit and figure out what your ex found so objectionable about your behavior. If you find it difficult to dispassionately figure this out, then you might need to go and talk to a professional about the specifics of your situation.

A professional can help you see things from the point of view of your ex and if you want to get someone back, this could be the key. What this does not mean is that you become a doormat for your ex and agree with whatever they say and whatever they object to. That is why it is good to have a professional third party look at the situation and give you their thoughts. If they believe your ex has a point about an aspect of your behavior, then they will tell you and go they may even go on and work with you to change that behavior.

The second part of your apology, as said, involves explaining to your ex how what happened will never happen again. This is when you present your ex with the plan that you have put in place to ensure no repeat of what happened. When your ex hears about your well thought out plan, as you attempt to get someone back, it will be in your favor. Your ex will see that you are serious and sincere in what you're saying. If you are working with a professional, this is a great indicator to your ex that there is hope for a second chance.

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Always be honest and sincere! Your second chance with your ex will be far more likely with this kind of character and attitude. All the best to those who want to get back with their love ones.

Cheers
Johnny
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7 Crucial Steps in Saving a Relationship

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If you don't learn from your mistakes, there's no sense making them.
- Anonymous
Crucial Step 1: Is Your Relationship Worth Saving? Ask Yourself this Question!
Before you start to save your relationship, you have to decide whether this relationship is worth saving or not. In order to save a relationship, both parties have to ensure that they want to get back together and a commitment is a must to work things out together without any complains.

Crucial Step 2: Must Find Out the Real Problems in your Relationship
You must really find out the real problems in your relationship in order to save it. One of the major problems among most undesired relationship is that people believe the symptoms of the problem are the problem itself. People has been thinking that all men who are having an affairs are bad, they are thinking the man is at wrong. However, the affair is only a symptom of the real problem itself. Do people really find out what has caused the affair? Is it because of a lack of intimacy that lead to a straying spouse? In order to save your relationship, make sure you start to handle with the core issues rather than symptoms.

Crucial Step 3: Spend 20 Minutes Each Day to Talk to Each Other
If the main issue is insufficient communication, commit 20 minutes each day to talk to one another before going to bed. This will tend to help couples to understand one another better and at the same time relief some stress. If both of you are staying far apart, make a phone call to chat with your partner before going to bed.

Crucial Step 4: Share Your Thoughts with Your Partner
Make sure you identified the main problems behind the broken relationship and once this is done, you can begin to share your thoughts with your partner. This includes both telling your own feelings and listening to your partner's concerns.

Crucial Step 5: Hold Your Partner's Hand While Talking About Your Problems
Let your partner know that you want to reconnect even when you are feeling bad. When your partner talks about things that may hurt you, remind yourself that he or she is not doing it purposely to hurt you. However, he or she just want to improve the relationship with you.

Crucial Step 6: Create an Action Plan to Solve the Problems Together
After knowing the real problems in your relationship, what you need to do immediately is to create an action plan to solve them together with your partner. Then, take concrete steps on your action plan.

Plan a date night at least once a week if you do not spend time together like you used to be. Make sure the two of you take turns to come up with creative ways to spend an evening together on your favourite day of the week, e.g. Each Friday. This is important as both of you will feel that equal amount of effort is put in together to actually make things work.

Crucial Step 7: Saving a Relationship is a Ongoing Process
Finally, you should have realized that saving a relationship is an ongoing process. You are going to take two steps forward and to take one step back only. Remember to be quick at apologizing and slow to blaming. You will feel both laughter and tears while going forward and that is life. Feel it with the one you love and treasure it as memories. Never regret what you have done and move on together to build a better future.


Parting Words
Try to think about how the two of you get together in the first place and this may leads back to beautiful memories of the past and you will have more courage to save your relationship.

Cheers
Johnny
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10 Relationship Advice for Men on How to Keep a Woman Happy

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Unless we think of others and do something for them, we miss one of the greatest sources of happiness. ~ Ray Lyman Wilbur

A question for all men out there, have you ever tried making your woman happy? This is the most important question for men if you want your woman to be happy when she is with you. Everyone has feelings and we can feel whether someone is happy through their facial expression or the way they response back to us. When you feel that your woman is happy with you, most probably you will feel the same towards her.

There are different ways to keep your woman happy and take note whether you are actually doing some of the steps as mentioned currently. If you are not doing any of them in your relationship, you should think about it and start implementing them to improve your relationship to the next level.


Relationship Advice 1: Always Be Yourself Do you know that a confident man is the most attractive person among the ladies? Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys may have some of the prettiest women as their girlfriend? The main reason behind it is that they display a certain level of confidence in themselves that is so attractive towards the women that they do not really care about their looks. Therefore, always be yourself and be confident in the things you are doing as this will make your woman feel happy that they have found someone really good in their life.

Relationship Advice 2: Try Not to Look At Other Women When with Her Do you know that women will tend to get jealous easily when you are looking at some other women right in front of their eyes? This will make them think that you are comparing her to the women you are looking at so make sure you should try not to look at other women when you are with her.

Relationship Advice 3: Do the Little Things From time to time, you should do little things that show you care about her. Ask the florist to send over her favourite flowers to her work place on some random occasion as this will surprise her up. Arrange and drop by her work place to have lunch with her. All these little things add up to a long relationship so do keep that in mind.

Relationship Advice 4: Be Considerate of Her Feelings
Women are less stable than guys so you should always be considerate of her feelings. When you are sensitive to her mood, you won't get on her bad side.

Relationship Advice 5: Appreciate What She Has Done
Never take your women for granted and make her feel that you value what she has done for you. Appreciation is very important in our lives as this shows that we care about what others have done for us.

Relationship Advice 6: Always Try to Make Her Laugh If you want your women to be happy, you definitely will need to make her laugh. If you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing. Women like their man to have a sense of humor as they know that someone will be able to cheer them up with a joke when they are feeling low.

Relationship Advice 7: Seek Common Interest
Find out the common interest between you and her. If you cannot find any, try to share her interest in some of her hobbies together. It will show her that you have a sincere interest in wanting to know and possibly like the same activities that she likes.

Relationship Advice 8: Do Not Forget to Groom Yourself
Do not get sloppy just because you have managed to get her as your women. You must at least do the basic grooming when you are going out with her. Remember to shave and keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. Take this advice to heart; women will want to go out with someone who looks presentable instead of old and untidy man.

Relationship Advice 9: Get Along with Her Girlfriends & Impress Her Parents
A man must be able to mix well as she will want to know whether you can be easily integrated into her circle of family and friends or not. Therefore, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents.

Relationship Advice 10: Always Try New Things
When you first begin your relationship, everything is new and interest to try. It seems like you and your woman are in honeymoon mood. However, after a while together, things tend to become routine. If you find that your relationship has weakened, try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

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In order to keep your dating life strong, these things are common sense and make sure you pay attention to what we have shared with you so that you can build a strong relationship. Be sure to follow all of these tips and your woman should definitely be happy and respond back in positive manner.

Cheers

Johnny

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7 Beautiful Love Quotes for All Lovers

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Paris - The City of Love

Beautiful Love Quotes 1

Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free ...
Will never fly away.
~ Dick Sutphen ~


Beautiful Love Quotes 2

You will never know true happiness
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand
what pain really is
until you have lost it.

~ Unknown~


Beautiful Love Quotes 3

To love a person is to learn the song
That is in the heart,
And to sing it to them
When they have forgotten.

~ Unknown~


Beautiful Love Quotes 4

Love is like a friendship caught on fire.
In the beginning a flame, very pretty,
Often hot and fierce,
But still only light and flickering
As love grows older,
Our hearts mature
And our love becomes as coals,
Deep-burning and unquenchable.

~ Bruce Lee~


Beautiful Love Quotes 5
The best and most beautiful things
in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

~Helen Keller~


Beautiful Love Quotes 6
"Life has taught us that love
does not consist in gazing at each other,
but in looking outward together in the same direction."
~Antoine de Saint-Exupery~


Beautiful Love Quotes 7
"Love means to commit oneself without guarantee,
to give oneself completely in the hope
that our love will produce love in the loved person.
Love is an act of faith, and whoever
is of little faith is also of little love."
~Erich Fromm~

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How to Get Over Someone You Love

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"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."
~ Dr Martin Luther King Jr

Are you aware that there are stages of grief when mourning someone who has died? There are also steps that must be taken when getting over a break up. It is actually harder to recover from a divorce or break up compared to getting over someone who has passed away. This is because there is normally societal support when someone dies but you are supposed to go through the process of getting over a break up on your own instead.

If you really want to know how to get over someone you love, you must understand that the process is not that easy. However, if you have the faith to take the first step, you will probably be on your way to free yourself from all the troubles that you are facing right now.

There are actually steps that you need to follow in order to get over someone you love. Please take note that the process during this period of get over time may be hard to bear but once you managed to get through it, you will be able to live a normal life once again.

Crucial Step 1: Pour Out Your Heart on a Letter
What you need to do is sit down and write a long letter to your ex. Pour out everything that is stored in your heart with the experiences you had shared together. Let your ex know why you loved him or her and even let them know how you feel about them now in the letter. Do call the names you used to call your ex and it is fine to write it in any matter that you want it to be as no one is ever going to see it. What you going to do next is to burn that letter, this method helps you release all the emotions that you have stored up so far while the burning ritual defines the end of the relationship. This will greatly help you on the road to emotional recovery.

Crucial Step 2: Arrange to Exchange Stuff
No matter how long is your relationship, you probably have some stuff of your ex at your place and so are your things at your ex's place. Both of you probably want your own stuff back so arrange a date to meet to return each other's stuff.

Crucial Step 3: Removed anything that is Left Behind by Your Ex
Any other stuff that is given to you by your ex as a gift, please removed it away by either giving it away or if the item is something expensive, go ahead and pawn it.
Do not leave anything behind as it will remind you of them. Make sure you get rid of any photos you have with your ex as you need to totally forget about your past relationship in order to get over the break up.

Crucial Step 4: Settle any Financial Affairs with Your Ex
You need to straighten out the financial matters such as any money owed or any tangible items you own together (money in joint bank account) with your ex. This is an extremely important step towards the closing ceremony of relationship.

Crucial Step 5: Cut any Contact with Your Ex for at Least 30 Days
Set a mutual agreement with your ex that within the period of 30 days, both of you are not supposed to contact each other no matter is call, text messages, email or meet each other. Make sure that both of you agree to avoid the favourite hangouts where you are likely to run into each other during this 30 days. You will really need the time & the space to slowly forget about your ex in order to live your life once again during this period.

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If you are still facing troubles after performing the above steps, it might be necessary to seek counseling. Explain to the counselor that you have just been through a painful break up and ask the counselor how to get over someone you love. Normally, they can offer helpful advice and they will give you specific instructions about how to get over someone you love. A counselor will definitely be able to offer a better advice compared to your friends or family. Your friends and family members will normally advice you to get over things and move on to find another person instead. However, this may not be a wise advice as it is hard to actually forget the memories you have with your ex. With a counselor, you can safely tell those things about the relationship you probably do not want friends or family to even know.

Cheers
Johnny
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5 Life Learning Lessons From the Women Who Have Dumped Me

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"Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty. I think of the glass as too big.”
~ George Carlin #Quotes

Do you know that there are always life learning lessons behind every break up relationships? It is a matter of whether the person who is experiencing the break up is willing to learn from it. It can be a very painful process to actually learn from your own break up. If you really want your new relationship to be a better one, you will need to go through the process of looking into yourself of what has really gone wrong that caused the breakup.

Personally, I have managed to learn some life learning lessons through my own experiences which allows me to bring forward with me to start a new relationship and prevent the same thing from happening again. I realized that when we all start learning from our previous relationships, we will tend to grow ourselves as time goes by.

Everyone know that breaking up is a painful experience to go through so no one will wish to have it happened in their whole lives. Therefore, I would suggest you go through what I am going to share with you and see whether you can relate any of the situation into your own relationship and try to make any necessary changes to prevent a break up from happening.

Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 1: Give women their personal space
It is very important to give the woman you love their own personal space. In order to have a lasting relationship, trust is the most important factor.

Men tend to have a tendency to be possessive of their own women and will like to know everything like what their women are doing right now and who they go out with. Normally, the instinct of possession on the man is stronger if they have past experience of being cheated by women. No matter how long your relationship is, remember never ever try to invade a woman personal space as this gives the woman an impression that you do not trust her. Women are sensitive creatures so make sure you remember this advice in heart or else it may lead to the end of the relationship.

Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 2: Control your own life & make things happen
Almost all of us do not have control over what had already happened. However, we can control and focus on the present or even the future. Remember this, all of us have the ability to make decision and choose to build a positive relationship.

Action is very important towards a successful relationship so you have to plan ahead and make things happen for yourself. Go out and meet new women, do not restrict yourself with guy friends only. When the time is right, you will definitely find someone you will want to give your whole heart to. Once you managed to learn to control your own life, you should be able to start a new relationship better and stronger compared to the previous one.

Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 3: Accept the facts that it was not meant to be
The key factor in healing from a break up is to accept the relationship is not meant to be. Consider it as a blessing to be able to end a relationship that is not meant to be earlier rather than later.

If you had started imagining the future of your current relationship - considering marriage and having kids - and then everything went bad, you will definitely be glad that you have managed to break up early.

Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 4: It always takes 2 hands to clap
It is always a heartbreaking and painful experience to face whenever a break up happens and it is easy for us to blame our partner for the misery we face. However, have you heard before that it takes two hands to clap? The truth behind a broken relationship is that you are part of the problem too. What you need to do is stop blaming and start evaluating what has gone wrong so that you can apply the things you have learned for your next relationship or you may even want to try getting back your relationship by fixing the problems that the two of you face together.

Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 5: Time will definitely make you stronger
Although you may have many sleepless nights as the hurt caused by the break up is so great, the truth is that always allow time to heal all of your pain and at the same time, it will also make you a stronger person.

Parting Words
Just like the above mentioned #Quote by George Carlin, "Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty. I think of the glass as too big.” Different people see things differently so make sure when you are in a relationship, try to put yourself into the shoe of your partner so that you will be able to understand the situation better and prevent the unnecessary quarrels between the two of you. This will greatly helps to improve the trust in the relationship and thus build a strong foundation between the two of you.


Cheers
Johnny
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How To Get Back Initial Contact with the World

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Hi Everyone,

This is our first blog post and we would like to have a warm welcome to everyone who visited our site. HowToGetBack is a blog that provides relationship help to anyone who are having troubles in their relationship no matter whether is a breakup or quarrel with their partner.

Our job is to provide relationship advices and tips on how to get back their ex and also getting over from their breakup through the use of articles and videos that we will be sharing as times goes by.

Our main aim is to help more couples get back together as we believe that all relationships can be saved and it is a matter of how much effort is being put into saving it. Sometimes, a breakup can happen due to a small issue that is being snowball into a big one. We will be highlighting on what to look out for in order to prevent those unnecessary events from happening.

Everyone should have a joyful experience in their relationship as it helps to bring out the happiness in almost everyone. Hope the knowledge shared in this relationship blog will guide all couples to get back together and enjoy the true loving relationship in their lives for as long as ever.

Please leave a comment if you have any stuff that you want to highlight along the way as we will be sharing a lot of great tips and advice on different situations of a relationship. Hope everyone will enjoy the visit to this relationship blog and do share with your friends the tips that you have found in this blog in order to help as many people as possible along the way.

Cheers
Johnny
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