How to Get Back Together

Have you heart been broken by your boyfriend? Are you lost without him? Do you ever hope that you can still win him back? Now, learn the how's on dealing with a boyfriend break up.

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1. The very first thing to do is to get through a matter of acceptance, an acceptance that it's totally over. If you are still thinking of him and you always keep on saying that he's still a part of your present and future, you will and you cannot move on. But, it does not indicate at all that you need to force yourself to put him in the past right away even if you are not ready.

2. Well, if you just think rightly, there are many ways on how to get him back. If you choose to be a part of his life again, you may do so casually waiting and hoping that you will be with each others arms once more. But, if you know in your heart that he's gone, and you are ready to move on, then the next time to do is to get total closure. Closure means a recognition by both parties that the relationship is over and it's on the process of healing. It is also necessary to communicate your hurt this time. Here's how you do it:

• Talk about your hurts and pains with your trusted family and friends, they can help you get through with it. Always remember that only your true friend can empathize you but not your so called friends.
• If you really can't handle your feelings, work with therapy so that you can fully ventilate your feelings.
• Put all your feelings into writing to let it all out. This is the most cost-effective way on expressing yourself without someone to help, it's just you.

3. Now you're done with closure, it's time to learn on getting rid about anything and everything of your ex. Those things about your ex will just remind you about him and the boyfriend break up as well. Sometimes, you cannot simply throw the things from him because of the good memories it had. But, for some things with less or no memories at all, it's easy for you to return or throw. More over, if some gifts are still meaningful for you, you can keep it but place it on a safe place where you can hide it for the time being.

4. So, you already learned how to avoid him, now you need to know how to live a single life. You may be feeling so hang up in time. Or, you may find that you are liberated by not having to do everything your ex wanted you to do. Now that you are single, do the things that make you happy. Go to the gym so that you look and feel good. Spend some time getting pampered at the spa. Take a Spanish class at the community center. Or maybe you would like to volunteer in any public organizations. By doing things that you are interested with, you can become fruitful and happier as a person. It will make you miss you ex little less by doing all those things.

5. One way that you can truly attest that you are already moved on is when you have strong feelings for the new guy. We do not know, but that feeling maybe reciprocated too. You may feel that "this is it" and a new relationship with him will be established. That only happens when you know in your heart and mind that you have moved on with that boyfriend break up.

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