Do You Make These Relationship Mistakes While Getting Your Ex Back?
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Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. Unless it's a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from. ~ Al Franken
Have you ever wonder whether you have done the correct way to get back your ex? There are plenty of ways to get back your ex but it does not mean that all methods suit everyone. Some methods work on certain people while some may not as not everyone can accept the way we do things and if you are not careful you may end up cause the situation to worsen.
Remember to be extremely careful of what actions you take while trying to get your ex back. Always remind yourself that you are trying to get back your ex not getting them to hate you as this is to ensure that you will not do anything silly.
The following is a list of relationship mistakes that you should look out for and make sure you do not commit any of them as you do not want your ex to hate you.
Relationship Mistakes 1: Remind your Ex on the Promises They Made
Never try reminding your ex the things that they have said before as this will bring back sad memories instead of good ones. They may have promised you on certain things before but what is the point you are trying to get when you keep on constantly reminding them. This will only remind your ex how good it is to have leave someone like you as normally, people do not like to hear people nagging about their past.
Relationship Mistakes 2: Keep on Calling All Day Long
Hey, make sure you are not doing this as this really bug people off. Try calling your best friend everyday and see what he or she will tell you, normally they will ask you why you keep on calling me? Since you know that this is very annoying, never make this common mistake which many break up personnel has done without thinking through.
Relationship Mistakes 3: Flooding your Ex with Letters & Text Messages
When your ex is angry with you, they will not want to see anything from you at all. No point sending letters, emails and text messages to flood your ex to let them know how much you miss them as this will cause them to feel more pissed off. Try something different from others by sending something he or she love. If your ex do drive, drop a note on their windshield to grab their attention as this will catch her unexpected.
Relationship Mistakes 4: Follow your Ex Everywhere They Go
Stop being a stalker although you want your ex to know that every minute they live, you will be right there. For example, showing up at her school and waiting for her outside of class or by her car. This really scared people off as they will think that you seem to be crazy instead of being lovely.
Relationship Mistakes 5: Call your Ex's workplace to Look for Them
When people are at workplace, they are rarely in a romantic or relationship frame of mind. Most people do not like their colleagues know about their private life so they will try to keep their personal life and work life very separate. By calling her at work, she will feel like you are stalking her and cause her to hate you especially if it affects their job.
Relationship Mistakes 6: Try Dating Their Best Friend
Your efforts to make your ex jealous by dating their friends may end up ruining their friendship. Even if you manage to get back together, your ex will always blame you for causing her split with his or her best friend.
Relationship Mistakes 7: Bother Their Friends
Do you know that it is very annoying to hear your friends complaining to you that your ex has been constantly bothering them? You may think that showing concern is the right way to do but if you keep on constantly ask your ex's friends how he or she is doing and finding out where they are going. All these may not seems significant to you but it will cause your ex's friends to be pissed off as it is your own problem and why you want them to get involved. This will normally bring to the attention of your ex and it will cause he or her to be very angry.
Relationship Mistakes 8: Call your Ex Parents and Try to Be Their Parent's Best Friend
Never try calling your ex's parents up and try to be their parent's best friend. Remember that parents will always side with their children no matter what. This will always backfire on you resulting in making your ex have more reasons to hate you.
Relationship Mistakes 9: Harassing your Ex's New Love
I know you may be very jealous when seeing your ex found a new love interest but never try to call your ex's new lover up to declare that you are the real love and it is just a matter of time before you get your ex to come back to you. Instead of getting your ex back, this will make both your ex and the ex's new lover hate you. Thus, allowing them to become closer due to your harassment.
Parting Words
There are plenty of ways to get your ex back in love with you but get help and find out what things work. Follow your heart if you want to get your ex back, but always be careful of what you are going to do.
Cheers
Johnny
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