5 Life Learning Lessons From the Women Who Have Dumped Me
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"Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty. I think of the glass as too big.”
~ George Carlin #Quotes
Do you know that there are always life learning lessons behind every break up relationships? It is a matter of whether the person who is experiencing the break up is willing to learn from it. It can be a very painful process to actually learn from your own break up. If you really want your new relationship to be a better one, you will need to go through the process of looking into yourself of what has really gone wrong that caused the breakup.
Personally, I have managed to learn some life learning lessons through my own experiences which allows me to bring forward with me to start a new relationship and prevent the same thing from happening again. I realized that when we all start learning from our previous relationships, we will tend to grow ourselves as time goes by.
Personally, I have managed to learn some life learning lessons through my own experiences which allows me to bring forward with me to start a new relationship and prevent the same thing from happening again. I realized that when we all start learning from our previous relationships, we will tend to grow ourselves as time goes by.
Everyone know that breaking up is a painful experience to go through so no one will wish to have it happened in their whole lives. Therefore, I would suggest you go through what I am going to share with you and see whether you can relate any of the situation into your own relationship and try to make any necessary changes to prevent a break up from happening.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 1: Give women their personal space
It is very important to give the woman you love their own personal space. In order to have a lasting relationship, trust is the most important factor.
Men tend to have a tendency to be possessive of their own women and will like to know everything like what their women are doing right now and who they go out with. Normally, the instinct of possession on the man is stronger if they have past experience of being cheated by women. No matter how long your relationship is, remember never ever try to invade a woman personal space as this gives the woman an impression that you do not trust her. Women are sensitive creatures so make sure you remember this advice in heart or else it may lead to the end of the relationship.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 2: Control your own life & make things happen
Almost all of us do not have control over what had already happened. However, we can control and focus on the present or even the future. Remember this, all of us have the ability to make decision and choose to build a positive relationship.
Action is very important towards a successful relationship so you have to plan ahead and make things happen for yourself. Go out and meet new women, do not restrict yourself with guy friends only. When the time is right, you will definitely find someone you will want to give your whole heart to. Once you managed to learn to control your own life, you should be able to start a new relationship better and stronger compared to the previous one.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 3: Accept the facts that it was not meant to be
The key factor in healing from a break up is to accept the relationship is not meant to be. Consider it as a blessing to be able to end a relationship that is not meant to be earlier rather than later.
If you had started imagining the future of your current relationship - considering marriage and having kids - and then everything went bad, you will definitely be glad that you have managed to break up early.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 4: It always takes 2 hands to clap
It is always a heartbreaking and painful experience to face whenever a break up happens and it is easy for us to blame our partner for the misery we face. However, have you heard before that it takes two hands to clap? The truth behind a broken relationship is that you are part of the problem too. What you need to do is stop blaming and start evaluating what has gone wrong so that you can apply the things you have learned for your next relationship or you may even want to try getting back your relationship by fixing the problems that the two of you face together.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 5: Time will definitely make you stronger
Although you may have many sleepless nights as the hurt caused by the break up is so great, the truth is that always allow time to heal all of your pain and at the same time, it will also make you a stronger person.
Parting Words
Just like the above mentioned #Quote by George Carlin, "Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty. I think of the glass as too big.” Different people see things differently so make sure when you are in a relationship, try to put yourself into the shoe of your partner so that you will be able to understand the situation better and prevent the unnecessary quarrels between the two of you. This will greatly helps to improve the trust in the relationship and thus build a strong foundation between the two of you.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 1: Give women their personal space
It is very important to give the woman you love their own personal space. In order to have a lasting relationship, trust is the most important factor.
Men tend to have a tendency to be possessive of their own women and will like to know everything like what their women are doing right now and who they go out with. Normally, the instinct of possession on the man is stronger if they have past experience of being cheated by women. No matter how long your relationship is, remember never ever try to invade a woman personal space as this gives the woman an impression that you do not trust her. Women are sensitive creatures so make sure you remember this advice in heart or else it may lead to the end of the relationship.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 2: Control your own life & make things happen
Almost all of us do not have control over what had already happened. However, we can control and focus on the present or even the future. Remember this, all of us have the ability to make decision and choose to build a positive relationship.
Action is very important towards a successful relationship so you have to plan ahead and make things happen for yourself. Go out and meet new women, do not restrict yourself with guy friends only. When the time is right, you will definitely find someone you will want to give your whole heart to. Once you managed to learn to control your own life, you should be able to start a new relationship better and stronger compared to the previous one.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 3: Accept the facts that it was not meant to be
The key factor in healing from a break up is to accept the relationship is not meant to be. Consider it as a blessing to be able to end a relationship that is not meant to be earlier rather than later.
If you had started imagining the future of your current relationship - considering marriage and having kids - and then everything went bad, you will definitely be glad that you have managed to break up early.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 4: It always takes 2 hands to clap
It is always a heartbreaking and painful experience to face whenever a break up happens and it is easy for us to blame our partner for the misery we face. However, have you heard before that it takes two hands to clap? The truth behind a broken relationship is that you are part of the problem too. What you need to do is stop blaming and start evaluating what has gone wrong so that you can apply the things you have learned for your next relationship or you may even want to try getting back your relationship by fixing the problems that the two of you face together.
Stop Getting Dumped Lesson 5: Time will definitely make you stronger
Although you may have many sleepless nights as the hurt caused by the break up is so great, the truth is that always allow time to heal all of your pain and at the same time, it will also make you a stronger person.
Parting Words
Just like the above mentioned #Quote by George Carlin, "Some people think of the glass as half full. Some people think of the glass as half empty. I think of the glass as too big.” Different people see things differently so make sure when you are in a relationship, try to put yourself into the shoe of your partner so that you will be able to understand the situation better and prevent the unnecessary quarrels between the two of you. This will greatly helps to improve the trust in the relationship and thus build a strong foundation between the two of you.
Cheers
Johnny
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