How to Get Back Together

If you're struggling to keep your relationship with your wife or girlfriend from falling apart you will need guy advice on healing a relationship. You may want to talk to your buddies, but the truth is they probably don't know any more than you do. Just keep on reading to get some helpful tips on rebuilding your relationship.

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To come up with a solution in restoring your relationship, you need to follow either of the two formulas: “I am sorry” and/or “I was wrong” Neither one will mean a thing if they aren't sincere. The first thing you have to do to heal your relationship is to be a man and own up to your part in the problems.

A lot of men perceive “saying sorry” as a sign of weakness. Actually nothing could be further from the truth. If you think about it, one of the hardest things you will ever do is to admit you were wrong and that you caused someone else's pain, especially someone you love. It is quite toilsome to do. Asking for forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but it is a proof of being a man.

In some ways it might seem easier to just bury your feelings and don't admit that you were wrong or that you are in pain. Again, a very “brave” thing to do. But is it? While that might be the first thing many men will do, it's not the easiest in the long run. Suppressing those feelings won’t set you free. On the later part, it will manifest and may haunt you at the least expected time. It may be painful but you have to face it to overcome it. That’s the only way to have peace within you.

If you want to rebuild your relationship, you have to acknowledge your part on the downfall of the relationship. So, you have to ask yourself whether you took good care of your partner or have you given the love she needed.

I’ll give you a clip from the movie “The Breakup” wherein the woman hosted a dinner party after a long day at work. She asked the man to wash the dishes but the man refused to.

Actually, the woman never technically means to let him wash the dishes. What she really wants him to do was to help her out. She wanted him to help her loose some burden within her.

Do you feel guilty now? Pretending not knowing what your wife really wants. Many men fall into that trap, just like in the movie. But men know what their girl wants. They just refuse not to know because it is much easier than helping. It's selfish. Continuing such problem will lead to bigger one on the near future. This all goes back to what I was talking about above: making your wife feel appreciated.

But it’s not too late to undo certain mistakes for you to be a better man. You can become the kind of man that you can be proud of and that she can love and respect. Following those advices will help you save your relationship.

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