How to Get Back Together

Even if there were so much pain and hurts, second chance romance can happen. It's time to listen to your heart and feel the spark once again.

Breaking up can give you a hard time to move on and think of a second chance idea, you will still feel the loss as if you cannot bear the pain anymore and you go on grieving. However, there are those people who choose not to dwell on things that hurt them but opt to heal their hearts and start once more from the beginning But saying I LOVE YOU will not help you to completely start with him again. However, there are significant ways to deal with before the decision for one more chance.

If you still believe in second chance and your heart is still beating for him, then go and find a way to win him back, learn through the processes and take time.

Learn to Know Yourself More
It is important that you will undergo assessment of yourself as YOU and as a partner in the relationship. Were you controlling everything in the relationship, as in avoiding your partner to meet with friends? Were you insecure with your partner? Were you not accepting ideas from him? Did you ever hurt him with your nags? When you were a nagger, or being controlling, then it can be the reason for break up. When you know that there really is something in you, make necessary changes.
You are not the only reason of the break up
It is so unfair when you are the only person to be blame on everything that happens in the relationship. Consider also your partner. Was he the best partner ever? Was he able to be supportive of you? Did he lie to you? When you know in your heart that he was not able to fulfill his responsibilities as a partner, then both of you are to be blamed.

Start with friendship
Love always starts with friendship. Although you have known each other very much, the separation made you miss something about each other, so you can be good friends after the break and who knows you will realize that you both still love each other. The process of friendship is very exciting as you begin to learn new about each other as if you just met awhile ago.
Hang out with him.. As friends!
Once you become friends after the break up, you can invite your partner for a party or a coffee as in purely friends. That’s the start of learning to be comfortable with each other.

Growing magic and spark!
When you are comfortable being together as friends, you can start to be very close this time.You may be feeling so comfortable with each other and you now start sharing your views, thoughts and feelings honestly. With such love and intimacy, you desire nothing but to be with each other's arms for good.

Back into each other's arms
Finally, after getting hurt fresh from break-up and have stood up again, now you and him are back for good! Since second chance is given for the both of you, you are obliged to care and love each other. Remember, when you are loving, you are nurturing and so love will flow like forever.

You got hurt and you have been healed. You stood up through the test of time. You were able to realize so many things from the past.You tried changing for the better. You never ever attempted to blame.You desired second chance romance. You put all your efforts. Love is indeed sweeter the second time around. Love is lovelier the second time but second chance is a demand for couples to take really good care of the relationship.

Cheers
Johnny