How to Get Back Together

Another day has gone
I'm still all alone
How could this be
You're not here with me
You never said goodbye
Someone tell me why
Did you have to go
And leave my world so cold
(From: You Are Not Alone)

Pop King Michael Jackson died on 25 June 2009 at the age of 50 and many of us grew up with a lot of his greatest hits songs since young. Michael Jackson was an American recording artist, entertainer and businessman. He was the 7th child in his family and his actually made his debut on the professional music scene in 1968 as a member of "The Jackson 5". He was referred to as the "King of Pop" in subsequent years after he began a solo career in 1971 while he was still a member of the group.

Most of you should have heard of his songs before and why he was declared as the "King of Pop" as he was one of the few artists to have been inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame twice, his other achievements include multiple Guinness World Records — including one for "Most Successful Entertainer of All Time" — 13 Grammy Awards, 13 number one singles in his solo career, and the sale of 750 million records worldwide.

*Details of Pop King Michael Jackson can be found on wikipedia

The following is 10 of the greatest love songs list by Pop King Michael Jackson:
- Wings Of My Love
- I'll Be There
- Got To Be There
- Girl Don't Take You're Love From Me
- One Day In Your Life
- Love is Here and Now You're Gone
- You Are There
- Call On Me
- I'll Come Home To You
- You Are Not Alone

We will always remember you the king of pop michael jackson and every one who is reading this remember that you are not alone.

For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
For you are not alone
(From: You Are Not Alone)

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**Are you trying to save your relationship and need immediate break up help? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”
~ Sydney Smith

There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came.

Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed.

Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and have never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never return anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.

On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on.
Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her ..... not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her.

"Hi......how are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked.

"Sure.....yeah!", he replied.
She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued,
"Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......"
Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, "Yes......you are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years."
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him.

All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!!
Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.

As it was Christmas eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 1200 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up.

He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma.
The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996.

The moral of this story is :
Treasure what you have...
Time is too slow for those who wait;
Too swift for those who fear;
Too long for those who grief;
Too short for those who rejoice;
But for those who love...
Time is Eternity.

Parting Words
For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realize that it is too late.

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**Are you trying to save your relationship and need immediate break up help? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.

"Connor Mead: Someone once told me that the power in all relationships lies with whoever cares less, and he was right. But power isn't happiness, and I think that maybe happiness comes from caring more about people rather than less... "

Genre: Comedy
Cast: Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Garner, Lacey Chabert, Michael Douglas, Emma Stone, Anne Archer, Robert Forster, Breckin Meyer, Amanda Walsh
Director: Mark Waters
Writers: Scott Moore, John Lucas

Movie Synopsis:
Celebrity photographer Connor Mead loves freedom, fun and women...in that order. A committed bachelor who thinks nothing of breaking up with multiple women on a conference call, Connors mockery of romance proves a real buzz-kill for his kid brother, Paul, and a houseful of well wishers on the eve of Paul's wedding. Just when it looks like Connor may single-handedly ruin the wedding, he gets a wake-up call from the ghost of his late Uncle Wayne (MICHAEL DOUGLAS), which he delivers through the ghosts of Connors jilted girlfriends-past, present and future taking Connor on a revealing and hilarious odyssey through a lifetime of failed relationships. Together they attempt to find out what turned Connor into such an insensitive jerk and whether there is still hope for him to find true love...or if he really is the lost cause everyone thinks he is.



This movie is a must watch as it's really meaningful and teaches you to cherish relationship and the following is our favourite quotes:

(convincing Sandra to go ahead with her wedding) "You've got to risk love Sandra! I didn't and look at me, I'm a lonely ghost of a man. It doesn't mean that you're never going to get hurt but the pain you feel will never compare to the regret that comes from walking away from love."

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**If you are feeling hopeless and frustrated over the relationship break up or rejection, learn how to get back love to stop your break up, divorce or lovers rejection today by discovering the secret that can helped you get back your ex relationship or stop the lover's rejection.

Some men see things the way they are and ask, "Why?" I dream things that never were, and ask "Why not?" ~ George Bernard Shaw

Have you ever wonder is there any hidden meaning of the words on what women say? There are actually many words that they said may not actually mean how they are feeling currently. As a man, you have to judge it based on their emotions and the tone of the words that they are using to see how you should react back accordingly.

Below is a list of what women say that has hidden meanings (Take note & act accordingly):

1) Go Ahead
This is a dare, not permission. Remember don't do it or else you will definitely regret!

2) That's Okay
This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

3) Nothing
This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4) Fine
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

5) Loud Sigh
This is not a word but is a feedback sign often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6) Five Minutes
If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

7) Don't worry about it, I got it
Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to #3.

8) Thanks
Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!

9) Thanks
A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome.

Parting Words
Share this to the men you know, to warn them about arguments they can avoid if they remember the terminology shared above and also share this to all the women you know to give them a good laugh, cause they know it's true!!!

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**Are you trying to save your relationship and need immediate break up help? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.

Every man wants a lasting relationship in their life and what is actually the best relationship advice for men when finding a soul mate? Probably the single biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to start observing what women display that they want instead of listening to what the women say they want.

Do you know that women normally say they want one thing but actually go out with a guy who is just the opposite? The answer to that question lies in the subconscious motivators for getting together.

What happen when women say something like these:
1) "I want a man who listens to me." - She will choose the man who dominates the conversation.
2) "I want a guy with a good sense of humor." - She will choose a man who has money.
3) "I want a guy who listens to me" - She will choose the man who dominates the conversation.
4) "Getting pregnant may be the last thing on her conscious mind" - This show that she is looking for a good papa for her children.
5) "I want a good dad who listens to me." - She actually wants someone who will provide for her children.

Status is another thing that women will choose as she will perceive someone with a higher status is a better provider for her future children. Therefore, try to build up your status level too. Do take note that having a good income is not enough for a lady. You also need to be generous with your resources and will provide for her children. That is why women place such a high value on expensive gifts such as jewelery.

Parting Words
The biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to figure out what women actually need from a different point of view and provide it to her.

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**Are you trying to save your relationship and need immediate break up help? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy.

I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene ten years ago.

The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy.
But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Mary came into my life.

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Mary hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.

Mary said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife.

When we were just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Mary's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.?
I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me.

However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.

Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Mary's body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently, she believed that divorce was something too far away from
her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Mary had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Mary said to me, James, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic
calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Mary.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger
one day. But I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the
month's time we must live as normal life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, James, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me.. I nodded and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage romantically.

I told Mary about my wife divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or Less made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Mary became vague.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Mary about this..

I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, it seems not difficult to carry you now. She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He said to him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old.

I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life lacked intimacy.

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Mary opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Mary, I won't divorce. I'm serious.

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Mary, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.

Mary seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we're old.

Cheers
Johnny

**P.S**Are you trying to stop your divorce and need immediate help save my marriageguide? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.

Everyone knows that the 3 word-phrases "I Love You" is the most powerful short love phrases in all relationships. In order to keep any relationships healthy, short love phrases with only 3 words will be pretty powerful and enriching towards any relationships. Please do not take see 3 word-phrases as little as they can create powerful and enriching effects in your relationship.

Let's take a look at the 10 Short Love Phrases that will help to keep relationships healthy:

1) I Respect You / I Trust You
Respect and trust is the most important aspect in any relationships. It helps to strengthen the bonds between the couples and brings out the joy of being together.

2) I'll Be There
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are restored emotionally and spiritually as being there is at the very core of civility.

3) I Miss You
Perhaps more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you". This powerful affirmation reassure partners that they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

4) Maybe You're Right
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting maybe "I'm wrong". Let's face it this way, when you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between the two of you.

By saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

5) Please Forgive Me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

6) Count On Me
Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true relationship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people together. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady. When troubles come, a good partner is always there indicating "you can count on me".

7) Go For It
Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your partners to follow their dreams. Tell him or her to "go for it".

8) I Understand You
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.

9) I Thank You
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. Always appreciate the things no matter how small that your partner did for you as this shows them you are grateful for the things they have done for you.

10) I Love You
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. It can just be three little words "I love you" but it do make a big difference when you said it out to the one you loved.

Parting Words
The above are the most common 3 word-phrases that have been used before by millions of couples across the world in different languages and you should really give it a try on any of them as there is no harm trying them out. Remember you must always keep your relationship healthy so that the two of you will be happy together without any misunderstandings.

Cheers
Johnny
**P.S**Are you trying to save your relationship and need immediate break up help? We recommend the best relationship books that will help you get through the break up period and get back your lost love.